Blame game !

I am so perfect,  I never did anything wrong, I am the one with pure heart" but not the other one! "( "Baby pure hearts never say's that they are the pure one an another one is evil "  And the nature is "we always sees  people through our eyes,that is our point view ,"we always think people the way we are "! )I am the leverage people always wanted to  take advantage of me!
These lines are those lines which those people say's who didn't able to handle there relationship with care! Because they were so busy in blaming the other one!
We are so busy in finding someone else mistakes in every thing , we are so involved in blaming somebody for every not working relationship. We never see things in the way to save that thing but we only choose to think that this is now spoiled and our only duty is to blame the other one! And choose to waste all the time of saving these things into blaming.But you know what "there is nothing which can't be save or heal! There is not such things which can't be repair if we want it to! We expect that the other one will do" so and so and so and if they don't do such " So thing" Which we are only thinking in our minds then that's the biggest crime which that person ever did in there entire life! Isn't it?
Because in our head's, our only duty is to sit and expect from  the omniscient! And waste all the previous time of our in expecting and blaming! And never think for one second that except expecting what are we doing! We don't even bother to tell that person atleast that thing which we are expecting ,because if we tell them  then what's the point of expecting! Am I right? So we just choose to sit quietly and do our routine of playing tha blame game!
What are you doing for love? Unless playing this blame game!
Have we ever tried to make it easy for the other person because these things just make it more harder for them!  
We need to try and do the same thing for the other one if we want the same thing without saying it to that person . We need to made them realise the feeling
which we want to feel! We need to say those things to them which we want them that they say to us!  This is not only there duty . Any relationship always works if both try equal yaah! More would be alright but not less!
Because we need to be equal to make it work.
And for make it work we need to break that "slave and boss bond" First! 
And then try, and see that how that feels to them!
Because if you want to feel that special feelings which you are expecting then it means that you know that feeling so why don't you try to made them feel also the same feeling which you wants to feel! Because if you deserve to feel special then they also, if you want them to do the things for you then you need to try it first!
And don't blame ,first see yourself! Before blaming or pointing fingure at each other we need to see that where we are lacking not the other one!
Stop this blame game! And try to improve it yourself , if you want something than say that something! If you want to save something  so hard than focus on that, see what you can do to save something not those thing which other could do to save!

Don't make it so hard for someone! Your responsibility is your responsibility it is not someone else ! Your happiness is your Happiness you can share that happiness but you can't expect from the other one to make you feel happy!
"Do it first before expecting "!
"Let them bend for some time on your back"
"Remove those clouds from your eyes!  see it for yourself that how you can improvise "!

Pallavi singh.